I knew our trip to Safeway wasn't going to be easy when five minutes into our trip, Kate started yelling "ALL DONE ALL DONE ALL DONE" and wriggling around in the backpack she normally rides in when we are grocery shopping. I kept telling her that we really aren't "all done" and we still had a bunch more shopping to do. (In case you're wondering - this kind of reasoning doesn't work with an angry 20 month old.) By the time we reached the pasta aisle, I couldn't ignore her yelling, so thought she'd be happier if I switched her to the grocery cart seat and put Maya in the backpack. This sounds simple, but in a packed grocery store it's not really so easy.
I extracted Maya from the grocery cart, put her on the ground and got Kate out of the backpack. Kate was happy about this until she realized that instead of the freedom to run amuck that she was yearning for, she was going to get strapped into the cart. So, while trying to follow Maya who was running down the aisle, dodging carts and grabbing for cans and jars, I'm trying to strap a screaming, fighting and squirming Kate into the cart. I'm not sure what the reaction to the people around me was, but I'm sure it was either - "poor mom, she looks like she could use some help" or "what kind of mother lets her toddler run free in a grocery store?" or maybe "what kind of mother takes two toddlers grocery shopping at 4:30 PM?". Maybe this is just what I was thinking to myself.
I did finally manage to get Kate strapped into the cart, wrangled Maya into the backpack and continued on shopping. Kate was even somewhat happy because I let her chose the produce and put it in the bags. She likes to be helpful, after all. Unfortunately, she had an even bigger meltdown in the checkout line - which ended in a full on kicking and screaming tantrum while the checker, bagger, people in line and other passer byers were trying to placate her. "Want a sticker? Want to play with the pen? Want to smack your mom in the face?" Needless to say none of this worked and just made things worse. I ended up walking out of the store with her in my arms screaming at the top of her lungs and kicking and hitting everything she could reach and every eye within screaming distance on us. Maya, in the meantime, seemed to feel a little sorry for me and was patting me on the head and giving me hugs from the backpack.
The Good - Sitting on a bench
After yesterday's grocery store debacle, I decided we all needed some calm, quiet time together. I think part of the tantrum was because we've been running around like crazy for the past few days and Kate was just tired, cranky and desperately in need of some down time. So, this morning we just hung out at home and then went on a quiet walk to the neighborhood store. We live in a kind of remote suburb that requires a minimum 12 minute drive to civilization. However (thank goodness) we have a lively neighborhood store within walking distance that sells all sorts of things - like diapers, milk, cold sodas and beer, snacks, ice cream, etc.
Anyways, we walked over to the store, I bought a bag of goldfish, a cold diet coke and then we sat on the bench in front of the store and ate our snacks and watched the people and cars go by. The girls actually sat calmly and ate their goldfish for 20 minutes. Kate was in heaven as she was sitting in the middle between Maya and me and had control over the bag of goldfish. She spent the whole time handing out goldfish to Maya, to me and to Rosie and then to herself. I love times like these - when everyone is relaxed, calm, and happy. Alas,all good things must come to an end, and Kate was very unhappy when Maya decided it was time to go and started running away at full speed. Kate kept trying to herd us all back to the bench so she could continue to feed us and keep her special time going.
The Pretty Darn Cute - Josh and Maya enjoying the 4th of July parade. (Yes, those skies are really that blue - I love summers in the mountains.)
1 comment:
You crack me up! 1 toddler is hard enough...thank goodness they are so cute :)
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